tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4069921930260396640.post5080185084192812179..comments2010-11-11T21:28:20.705-08:00Comments on My Thoughts: Sharathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09330932675530351396noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4069921930260396640.post-17315031781163878652010-10-02T09:41:20.853-07:002010-10-02T09:41:20.853-07:00Hey Sangeeta and Reshmi,
Thanks for your comments....Hey Sangeeta and Reshmi,<br />Thanks for your comments. They are very important as they encourage me to write :).<br /><br />If i rmember right, then didnt say that delhi was not working. I meant that my firms branch in delhi was closed. My colleagues over there in delhi are working on 9th october instead. If i have written it in a way that gives a message that Delhi was closed, then i apologise. That was not my intention.<br />I agree with what you said about trust in parents. There are instances wherein people live happily after an arranged marriage. There are cases when the guy and the girl dont even see each other before getting married, but still move on to live happily. But just because it works for my neighbours and your parents (mine had a love marriage), doesnt mean that it works for everyone. <br />Parents will be happy, true. But I believe that parents will be more happy to see you living happily with a person of your choice than seeing you suffering with a person of their choice.<br />I am not against arranged marriages. What i am against is the way it is being done. Let parents show you people who are worthy of becoming your life partner. But the onus of making the decision must lie with the couple getting married. <br />Coz lets face it, its your life. You will be living with your better half, not your parents. Parents are there to guide, they are there to advice and support you, not to force you to take decisions they want you to do. Its very important to understand that you can arrange everything, but love. <br />Marriage be it love or arranged, the most important people in it are the couple getting married. Its neither your parents nor the society. <br />People have married the way you have said. But then, I believe that it was a different age. An age when men hardly came in touch with women before marriage. An age when women, more often than not used to take the role of a home maker. Times have changed. Today women take an equally important role in the society. Interaction between men and women is a lot more than 70's and 80's. So there is every chance that you like someone at work or in college. <br /><br />You are right.. some things are devine, but divinity is there even if the child choses his/her better half. I am not arguing, but looking at a lot of marriages that have happened around me, i have formed this opinion. Particularly a lot of marriages that happened in the last couple of years or are scheduled to happen this year. Everyone has his/her own perception and views. These are mine.Sharathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09330932675530351396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4069921930260396640.post-54766152053659586882010-10-02T07:15:40.206-07:002010-10-02T07:15:40.206-07:00Reshmi
nice buddy for your first one i must say g...Reshmi<br /><br />nice buddy for your first one i must say gud effort but a little wrong on facts .Delhi was all working no hoilidays.<br /><br />Second one was nice but tell me one thing u said that the guy and the girl are least important but is it so? You have to decide in 2 mins but aren't our parents happy .atleast my parents are they don't have even those 2 mins.one of my friend's father just saw her mothers feet that's it and he said a yes and touch wood they are so happy with each other.what is bidding dude??<br />no hard feelings but there are two things which i think u cant deny that is trust in our parents<br />and secondly somethings are divine.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12717958665120148308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4069921930260396640.post-86423512071405734492010-09-29T21:45:53.247-07:002010-09-29T21:45:53.247-07:00nice :)nice :)sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12520715318658501422noreply@blogger.com